Why do women oppose their husbands using safe $ex?

I oppose the methods you've listed. However, I'm not sure what outercourse is and it doesn't sound to me like it would get the job done for me. My husband and I practice safe using spermicide without the use of condoms. Condoms bother my skin and take away the pleasure for both of us. We have two children and don't want anymore for a while. Please don't generalize all married people into one category.