MY HUSBANDS EX WIFE IS TRYING TO TAKE HIS DAUGHTER TO ITALY?

MY HUSBAND AND HIS WIFE HAVE A FORMAL DIVORCE DECREE STATING THAT WE GET TO SEE HIS DAUGHTER EVERY OTHER WEEKEND AND AND ON EVEN NUMBER OF YEARS WE GET HER FOR CHRISTMAS AND SO ON AND SO FORTH. WELL MY HUSBAND IS IN THE ARMY AND WE CAME FROM TEXAS TO GET CLOSER TO HIS DAUGHTER IN NORTH CAROLINA. WE MOVED UP HER IN AUGUST 08 AND NOW MY HUSBANDS EX WIFE AND AND HER HUSBAND ARE TRYING TO MOVE TO ITALY IN JUNE OF 2010 TWO YEARS AFTER WE GET HERE. WHEN WE FIRST MWIFE'STO NORTH CAROLINA WE WERE SUPPOSED TO HAVE VISITATION OF OUR DAUGHTER FOR 2 WEEKS OF AUGUST AND HAD CALLED HER THE WHOLE WAY UP TO NORTH CAROLINA TRYING TO TALK TO HER AND WHAT SHE WAS PLANNING ON DOING WITH LETTING US SEE HIS DAUGHTER. WELL WE FOUND OUT WERE SHE LIVED AND MY HUSBAND KNOCKED ON HER DOOR FOR 30 MINUTES AND THEY DIDNT AWNSER SO WE CALLED THE SHERIFFS AND HAD THEM COME OUT WELL THEY COULDNT MAKE HER GIVE THE DAUGHTER TO US BUT ASKED HER IF SHE WAS GOING TO LET US HAVE HER AND SHE OF COURSE SAID NO. SO WE WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE THE NEXT DAY TO FILE A COURT DATE TO GET VISITATION WITH OUR DAUGHTER WELL THE SAME DAY HIS EX WIFE WAS UP AT THE COURT HOUSE FILING A RESTRAINING ORDER ON MY HUSBAND TO KEEP HER AWAY FROM HIM AND NOT LETTING HIM SEE HIS DAUGHTER. WELL MY HUSBAND GOT SERVED THAT AFTERNOON WE WENT TO THE COURTHOUSE THE RESTRAINING ORDER STATING THAT HE WASNT TO GO NEAR HIS EX WIFE AND HIS DAUGHTER AND WE GOT A COURT DATE THAT FOLLOWING MONDAY AND IT WAS FRIDAY. SO WE WENT TO COURT AND THEY GAVE US VISITATION AND DELT WITH THE RESTRAINING ORDER AND TOOK IT OFF OF MY HUSBANDS DAUGHTER SO MY HUSBAND CAN SEE HER AND JUST KEPT THE ORDER ON HIS EX WIFE AND WENT LATER TO DEAL WITH THAT. MY HUSBAND HASNT SEEN HIS DAUGHTER ALL THAT MUCH BECAUSE WE HAD BEEN IN TEXAS AND HE HAD DONE A TOUR IN IRAQ. SO HE HASNT HAD THAT QUALITY TIME WITH HIS DAUGHTER. MY HUSBANDS EX WIFE'S HUSBAND IS A CIVILIAN CONTRACTOR AND IS TRYING TO TAKE US TO COURT TO MAKE US SIGN A P PORT. WELL WE WENT TO COURT THE FIRST TIME TO GET THE DIVORCE DECREE LIGITIMATED IN NORTH CAROLINA AND NOW THEY ARE TRYING TO TAKE US TO COURT TO GET A P PORT SIGNED. WELL WE TRIED SETTLING OUT OF COURT AND WITH HIS EX WIFE WE AGREED ON PAYING CHILD SUPPORT AND HALF OF THE PLANE TICKET WELL WHEN HIS EX WIFE WENT TO GET IT INTO WRITTING AND HAVE A LAWYER WRITE IT OUT HER HUSBAND TURNED AROUND AND SAID HE WANTED US TO PAY ALL OF IT AND WE WERE GOING TO COURT. MY QUESTION IS WHAT SHOULD WE PAY AND WHAT SHOULD WE NOT PAY FOR TRAVEL AND IN CHILD SUPPORT. IM SO CONFUSED ON ALL OF THIS. PLEASE HELP. WE HAVE BEEN TO COURT SO MANY TIMES WITH THIS WOMAN AND I AM AT THE END OF MY ROPE.